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Handle your Partner and Children equally

You look lovingly at him and he peeks into your eyes with an equal amount of desire. You want to be alone with him and spend the entire life just looking in to his lovely eyes. Waa!! You both are shaken out of your reverie. You push your husband away and run to gather your two year old kid in to your arms. Poor husband! He is left out in the cold and quietly gets back to his computer and tries to focus on the monitor.

This is a usual scene unfolding in most of the household, irrespective of country, religion, and language and cultural boundaries. I can already see lots of heads nodding in approval. But has anyone amongst us spent a moment to sit down, and find a way out of this never ending repetition of the same saga. No family can be complete with only parents and children and the parental bond. Your partner was the actual reason which made you think of children and of course there would be no children without his contribution.

Children sure need a lot of attention especially during their infancy and early childhood. But the trick is to handle both your parental and spousal responsibilities excellently. If you think that once the children grow up a bit, you will start attending to your partner, then beware! That day never comes, because kids are after all kids and will never stop demanding attention from their parents, no matter what their age.

Neglecting kids is not the solution and not at all recommended too. But there has to be balance between both the children and the spouse. Where there is a will, there is a way. If you really want to spend time with your partner, you can always find numerous ways to go about it. Try putting the kids to bed early and spend a romantic late night dinner with your partner. You may not be able to spend lot of time with each other. But at least you can always ensure that whatever little time you spend with your partner, you can make those little moments special and romantic. After all quality rather than quantity matters the most.

3 Responses to “Handle your Partner and Children equally”

  1. KidsCuracao said:

    Feb 01, 10 at 8:17 pm

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    Feb 02, 10 at 11:13 pm

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  3. Vixgr said:

    Feb 08, 10 at 6:50 pm

    Well I agree


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